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Sep 02 2010

The Road Ahead: Planning For and Organizing Around What's Next

Category: about me,connections,executive learnings,lifestreaming,teaming & leadership — jmacofearth @ 7:53 am

I have several huge personal events that are weeks, if not days, away. And I can only do so much to get ready for them. I can't count on the exact timing. And if the sequence does not happen in order, things might quickly go off the rails.

But somehow in all of it I am still maintaining a positive forward momentum. And I think that is a key to success in the universe. You don't always have to be type-a about things, striving, pushing, working, lobbying, for what you want to have happen. But keeping your eyes on the unfamiliar road ahead is a good technique for staying calm amidst great change and opportunity.

Every situation is an opportunity. And with the closing of one chapter of your life, entire new books become potential paths forward.

Yesterday, I Skyped my brother who lives in Mexico. I had gotten an email from Travelocity about a price drop in the airfare to Puerto Vallarta, the city closest to my brother's house. Even with all this activity going on, actually because of it, I was interested in possibly flying down to Mexico and chilling in my brother's beautiful house for a few days. Here's what my brother sent back.

when the bridge is out, move forward anyway

Getting to PV might not be a problem, but this bridge is the one road to Sayulita from PV. And a few days ago it had completely washed out.

"They might have something working in the next few days, so you never know," my brother said. "And I'm not trying to discourage you from coming, I'd love to have you…"

The picture is beautiful for many reasons. The gathering gloom above the mountains looks like a welcome break from the local heat we are dealing with here. The lush landscape is just what I thought I needed, to unplug and tune in to nature and swimming and speaking Spanish. There is a "do not cross" line of police tape, telling me to turn back. And it is clear from the photograph it will be a long time before THIS bridge is back in order.

But the picture does not say Don't Come. Nor did my brother. And the view beyond the bridge, beyond the complications that are so excited in my life right now somehow does not look menacing.

The real story of the picture, and the reason you are not seeing any advertisements on the bill boards is this is the bridge back into Puerta Vallarta. There are two bridges for East and Westbound traffic. So this is not really the road ahead, the road ahead in this picture is behind the viewer, on the road that is still in tact leading back into Sayulita.

And hours after I chatted with my brother about flying down to Mexico, one of my opportunities called. If it were to come into place, I would have no time for trying to cross the river. I would gladly stay on this side of the path and keep working with the same diligence I have been for the last few months.

Sometimes the road ahead is behind you.

@jmacofearth
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Sep 01 2010

Rockstars vs. Heros: A Manager Can Make the Difference

Category: career,executive learnings,teaming & leadership,trust & reputation — jmacofearth @ 10:48 am

rockstar building, not hero buildingBack in the day, I was part of an agressive startup company. We were working some folks too hard. While I was allowing some of them to work from home occasionally, the load was still pressing most of them into 60 hour weeks. As I was having a 1 x 1 with one of my team, I was talking about the rockstar mentality vs the hero mentality.

Here's a paraphrase: "It is my job to make rockstars not heros. I am like a strong support team. I will get you food if you have to work late. I will give you time off if you have to work weekends. I will help shift some other projects and prioritize your load so WE can succeed.

"What I am not into is creating heros. Heros are people who take the arrows for others; people who sacrifice their lifestyles to make the job work. These people end up feeling resentful, angry, and uncared for. It is my job, as a team leader, to identify the "hero" situations and try and turn them into "rockstar" situations."

Turns out, at that job I was working for a pretty supportive leader. He too was good at recognizing the difference between the two overachiever types and allowing me the flexibility to reward the rockstars and manage the heros. The problem was the fact that I was replacing an enabler. The manager who I had been hired to replace was somewhat of a mother hen. And the problem was, she was a hero. And being such she created even more heros on her team.

So when the heros were coming to me, a month into my new position, bent out of shape by how they had been treated or compensated or whatever, I was already at a disadvantage. I was NOT on IM at 10pm every night, "like they were." I did NOT work every weekend to catch up, "like they did." Or like the previous manager had.

Later in my career a manager/mentor taught me the saying, "It's not my fire."

I was just about to freak out and try hero mode on her, but she stood firm. "I'm going into this meeting. And then I have another meeting after that. If you still want to talk after lunch, I will talk with you about this, but I have other priorities at this moment."

Oh, I thought. And later I began to understand how that statement worked. I had to push back on the "fire-starter" and say, I will have to get back to you on this issue. And while the issue seemed URGENT to me and this other person, my manager had given me the power to hit the pause button.

This creates two opportunities for the fire-starter. 1. They can take a breath and regroup and wait for you to get back to them. OR 2. They can go around you.

In the case of the fire I was trying to put out, the person tried going around me while waiting for me to get back to them. And what ended up happening, was the person who was actually responsible for causing the hold up that was causing the fire, had to answer for the problem. By the time my manager and I reviewed the situation, the email flurry had died down, and the fire-starter had taken the issue back upon themselves. Where it belonged in the first place.

So I could've been a hero and spun my wheels and worked like a mad man for the entire morning to solve the problem. OR I could listen to reason, "You didn't create this problem and you alone cannot solve it." and get on with some of the things in my priority list that I could actually do something about.

Lesson learned: try to empower your team to become rockstars when necessary. If they are reporting in as heros, you might need to look at your own management style, and determine if you are enabling them to become fire-starters or hero-ic.

@jmacofearth
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Aug 30 2010

Managing for Monday Morning: How Do You Hit the Week Running?

Category: about me,executive learnings,how do i?,lifestreaming — jmacofearth @ 9:58 am
making monday work for you

My Monday AM View

One of the most memorable scenes in Office Space is when the lead character is having a rotten start to his week and one of his coworkers asks if he's having a "case of the Mondays." It really is kind of like fingernails on a chalkboard.

But the question of Monday mornings and quick-start routines might be illuminating if we can determine some winning strategies. Here's my current thinking and Monday start this week.

  1. Even if you don't have to get up early, get up early. (Law of productivity: get up earlier.)
  2. Even if you don't have an office or a cube to show up at, show up somewhere. (Home offices are really nice, but for me Monday mornings are for connecting and hitting strides that I will attempt to fulfill during the rest of the day, and if done well, the rest of the week.
  3. Set a few simple goals. (Your goals are not your todo list. Start with 3 goals for the day. If that's too many drop back to ONE GOAL. Until you accomplish it.)
  4. Consult and update your appointment calendar. (This seems like a no-brainer, but often things find their way on to our calendars that are not essential to our goals. If you can't define the purpose of an appointment on your calendar, delete it. If someone else put it there, ask them what the purpose is.)
  5. Be amongst your people, but don't be distracted. (I like being around people. I have headphones that take me whereever I want to go sonically, and then it's a matter of picking a location with good coffee and good people watching. And if I have a full agenda, a place with a good lunch as well.)
  6. Refocus everytime you find your mind wandering. (Sure, it's a proven fact that daydreaming is actually a highly aroused state, but there are better times for spacing out besides Monday morning.)
  7. Connect and reconnect. (Who do you need to contact. Just do it. Sales connections. Send the letters/emails. Old friends pop into your mind, send'm a note. "Thinking about you." That's enough.)
  8. Don't schedule for the entire morning. (Set a time limit. When the time is up, it's time to get to work, whatever that work may be.)
  9. Pause between mental leaps. (We are so quick to change our attentions or activities. Instead of letting your rapid mind make those choices, notice when you are about to jump the rails into another task. Then… PAUSE. Make sure the new direction is toward a goal and not just a response to boredom. Then take a breath. If the choice still seems wise, the go. If you find yourself questioning your mind's choice. Then you have reached a higher level of consciousness for a brief instant. Be grateful.) — this concept is expanded here: A Deep Breath

That's all I've got. Time's up. I need to get on with another task/goal, and YES, it's a good time to put a bow on it.

@jmacofearth
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Aug 27 2010

The seven immutable "blogging" rules to keep in mind and then crush!

Category: code is poetry,executive learnings,social media — jmacofearth @ 10:40 am

The short form is here. Twitter, Facebook status updates, TXT, mobile, shorter attention spans. All of these things contribute to the death of the long form, or POST. BUT… if you are coming to blogathonATX you might have different ideas. I certainly do. While I love Twitter and the other channels of the "statusphere" I think I sometimes do my best work up in the 500 WORD range. Your opinions may vary.

Here are a few rules of the trade that I find breakable and I often make efforts to subvert them actively. I thought you might like to consider them today, as we will be sharing some air and bandwidth tomorrow.

  1. Make your posts short.
  2. Always put up your posts mid-morning to maximize exposure.
  3. Write about what you know.
  4. Never, ever go "negative."
  5. Don't do too much self-promotion of your blog.
  6. The blog is a dying publishing form.
  7. Always keep your goal in mind.

That said, please do keep the above rules in mind as you sally forth and blog your hearts out. And here are the short versions of my corollary ideas.

1. Short posts often lead nowhere. One or two paragraphs of summary information with a "What do you think?" at the end… Well, I consider that post spam. Or post baiting. You can do it. But don't be surprised if nobody forwards, tweets, or "best of" links you. Dig in. Be articulate and verbose. Know how to edit, yes, but don't be afraid to WRITE.

2. Post'm when you finish'm. And then promote them a couple ways and a couple of times during the day. If you have some followers who are not in your timezone, they missed your tweet anyway. So tweet again. Sure you might lose some "followers" but that's not always a bad thing. Be afraid to be invisible. Be terrified of being bland.

3. How do you know what you know if all you ever write about is what you think you know? Write about anything that makes you passionate. If you later come back to it and think, "what the heck was I talking about" unpublish it. Or better yet, UPDATE it with your own self-revealing comment. "I have no idea where I was going with this post."

4. Nobody cross promotes boring prose or posts. Don't necessarily pick a fight, but when someone is trolling (being a virtual ass online) or speaking out in defense of something you find indefensible (Hummer love, for example) well pull out the guns and go for it. Don't be an ass or troll yourself. Stick to the facts. Back up your conjectures. And if you are wrong, or change you mind, share that too. But to only write positive posts, would make for some pretty bland reading most of the time.

5. Promote yourself. If you're really good maybe one other person will care about what you write. And remember that Europe and Asia are waking up as you are burning the midnight oil. You might as well tweet to them if you have'm. You can tell if it's working by looking at the stats in the 1 – 2 minutes following a tweet promo.

6. Blogs are the free self-publishing of this century. And there are plenty of blogs that run their course in about 10 posts. But don't give up when you run out of ideas. Good blogs, blogs with WRITERS and POETS are hard to find. But when you do, BOOM, you will understand why blogging exploded in the first place. (6.a Never pay for themes, never pay for hosting, use WordPress and FREE WordPress plugins.)

7. Go beyond the goal. Look further into the future. You might keep your goal in mind within a single post. But expand your goals always. By reaching or stretching beyond what you think you know, what you think you understand, you may find a new voice that you didn't plan on.

Bonus rule: Forget everything I just wrote.

@jmacofearth
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