I have several huge personal events that are weeks, if not days, away. And I can only do so much to get ready for them. I can't count on the exact timing. And if the sequence does not happen in order, things might quickly go off the rails.
But somehow in all of it I am still maintaining a positive forward momentum. And I think that is a key to success in the universe. You don't always have to be type-a about things, striving, pushing, working, lobbying, for what you want to have happen. But keeping your eyes on the unfamiliar road ahead is a good technique for staying calm amidst great change and opportunity.
Every situation is an opportunity. And with the closing of one chapter of your life, entire new books become potential paths forward.
Yesterday, I Skyped my brother who lives in Mexico. I had gotten an email from Travelocity about a price drop in the airfare to Puerto Vallarta, the city closest to my brother's house. Even with all this activity going on, actually because of it, I was interested in possibly flying down to Mexico and chilling in my brother's beautiful house for a few days. Here's what my brother sent back.
Getting to PV might not be a problem, but this bridge is the one road to Sayulita from PV. And a few days ago it had completely washed out.
"They might have something working in the next few days, so you never know," my brother said. "And I'm not trying to discourage you from coming, I'd love to have you…"
The picture is beautiful for many reasons. The gathering gloom above the mountains looks like a welcome break from the local heat we are dealing with here. The lush landscape is just what I thought I needed, to unplug and tune in to nature and swimming and speaking Spanish. There is a "do not cross" line of police tape, telling me to turn back. And it is clear from the photograph it will be a long time before THIS bridge is back in order.
But the picture does not say Don't Come. Nor did my brother. And the view beyond the bridge, beyond the complications that are so excited in my life right now somehow does not look menacing.
The real story of the picture, and the reason you are not seeing any advertisements on the bill boards is this is the bridge back into Puerta Vallarta. There are two bridges for East and Westbound traffic. So this is not really the road ahead, the road ahead in this picture is behind the viewer, on the road that is still in tact leading back into Sayulita.
And hours after I chatted with my brother about flying down to Mexico, one of my opportunities called. If it were to come into place, I would have no time for trying to cross the river. I would gladly stay on this side of the path and keep working with the same diligence I have been for the last few months.
Sometimes the road ahead is behind you.
@jmacofearth
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